Relationships & Bipolar .

[laceyjoanna]

I am 14 years old, and I've been dating this amazing guy for 10 months now. Well I have Bipolar, and he blames everything on himself when something goes wrong in our relationship. We are happy together, I'm afraid personally that he will break down over me, and won't be able to cope anymore. I try to talk to him about it. But, he said he would never leave me or give up. But, I'm still worried. Is there anything I can do? Is this healthy or the relationship? What should I change?

[Rise]

Hello,


Thank you so much for coming to us for help.

Being diagnosed with Depression awhile back; I know at times how frustrating at times it can be, especially when others tend to blame you or show you "special treatment".

Often times in a relationship there will be things that we worry about, but really whats important is what you truly believe in. If you know in your heart that everything will be okay and things will work out then its the best thing we can do for our selfs.

If you believe that you two are truly happy together than maybe take things day by day and see how things work out. Often times when we are nervous/worried about something we do tend to see things more in a un clear manner.

Try to take things day by day and see how things work out; hopefully there isn't anything that was worth worrying about

--Good Luck!

[Aletheia*]

There is nothing you have to do to change. It isn't your fault your boyfriend has these feelings. If he wants to blame himself, he's going too. But, you need to tell him that everything isn't his fault.