really confused, i dont understand what happened.

[bekdoctor]

So there's a guy at school who I've been friends with for over a year now, this year we began talking a lot more. For a while we were talking for up to 4 hours a night 5 nights a week. He always listened and seemed to care. Naturally, I started to like him more than a friend and he too seemed to have some feelings for me. He found out that I liked him and began to bug me about it a bit, but only once he crossed the line with it and I had to stop him. Then all my dreams came true and he asked me on a date, we were going to go skiing together. But the only problem was, there was no snow. We kept talking for a couple weeks but then he began to distance himself, I tried to ask why but he wouldn't answer. Then one day I watched as he walked into the caff with 4 girls to go eat lunch rather than with his friends and later that week he went to the schools semi formal with them. I asked one of his friends and he didn't know why it had happened. We don't talk anymore, but I want to know why he even bothered asking me on a date if he was just going to leave a couple weeks later.

[Aletheia*]

Most likely, he lost interest. Since your date was to go skiing and there was no snow to ski, your date couldn't happen. After this, he lost interest and has moved on. It's not right, but these things happen.

[Nicole!]

I agree with Shannon, I think he did loose interest. Just remember that it wasn't your fault, it was because of the weather. Next time a situation like this happens, plan a back-up date.

[bekdoctor]

Ya that's kinda what I thought had happened. I just don't understand how someone can completely move on and forget about you in only 2 weeks! Thats the part that really bothers me.

[Aletheia*]

It's a lot easier since you weren't in a relationship with him. If you had been in a relationship with him, and just suddenly broke up with you, asking that question would have an entirely different meaning. But, you weren't. There was no official relationship, so it's OKAY for him to have moved on so quickly. It's OKAY for you to move on too.

[Adele]

It sounds like he's been pretty mean! It can't be nice for you to see him with those other girls. I think boys think alot differently to girls, I don't think they think so much about how they may be hurting others by there actions as girls do.
My advice, and what I would do in this situation, is to focus on yourself. It's his loss, and you need to believe that. Show him how happy you are in your own skin and how it doesn't bother you.. Even if it's killing you inside.
There will be a guy who asks you out and will be just as excited about meeting up with you as you are and if you had to cancel he'd make sure he found a way around it.
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