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Unhappy Re-kindling an old Relationship - December 25th 2011, 01:09 AM

I was with my ex-boyfriend. and he is in the marine's and we was together he was marine (ass hole) mind set going on and i felt like i didnt matter in the relationship at all. but the other day we hung out and it felt right at this moment so wat should i do and i miss having him around. btw i have known him since last april/may and we was talking and there for each other for our break ups for other people. so what should i do. i talk to him all the time... HELP ME OUT


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Re: Re-kindling an old Relationship - December 25th 2011, 02:26 AM

I understand your frustration. But remember, thousands of families and relationships go through this. My brother wants to be a marine, and I don't want him to, but it is his dream. It's not that you don't matter or that he doesn't care about you, he just wants to follow his dream of being a marine. To help, just think about the day you'll see him again. (:


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Re: Re-kindling an old Relationship - December 25th 2011, 03:38 AM

I would just ask him if he likes you. Communication is key here and If you don't communicate - then It will be lost. So your best option is to ask him if he likes you or tell him you still have feelings for him and see what his response is. The worst that he can say is no or I just want to be friends. And if he says that than you know to move on - but its better to ask than to assume. Remember, Communcation.

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Re: Re-kindling an old Relationship - December 25th 2011, 02:25 PM

I agree with Chris. If you don't communicate, there is little chance of this actually working out. I'm assuming that when you were together, he was a fairly new Marine. Of course, being a new Marine, he's going to have the mind set that he's better than everybody. But, that doesn't mean he didn't love you or care about you. A lot of military guys are like this with their girlfriends. I know, since my boyfriend is a typical Army jerk.

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