How to choose.?

[cuttergirl17]

Guy number 1
Long distance
Been together two months but were on break now
Says he still loves me but doesn't care if I'm with another guy during our break
Could have a possible future with
Guy number 2
Long distance
Rlly rlly nice
We understand eachother
He's got a bad boy image but isn't a bad boy at all, which I like
Says he rlly rlly likes me
Its new its fresh....maybe I should give it a try
Rlly since me and number one r on break I should be able to just give number two a try but what happens when number one wants me back, I'm gonna have to break someones heart.....what do I do? Who do I choose?!

[green_gangsta]

honestly, i'd pick the third option. Don't date either of them and have some alone time to discover yourself. If you choose option 2 guy, its just a rebound. If you decide to wait for #1 and you find out he slept with other people... then you might get hurt?

But it doesn't seem like you really like either of them... because you'd be happy with guy #1 or #2. So i think you should be yourself and have fun (without any boys) and make your friends and family a priority.

[cuttergirl17]

No the problem is that like rlly like both of them

[PSY]

Originally Posted by cuttergirl17

No the problem is that like rlly like both of them

You really like both of them, but you can't choose between the two of them... so basically, you don't like either of them enough to commit to a long-term relationship, and that's the problem. I agree with the previous poster: spend some time being "single" so you can re-evaluate your priorities. If you want casual relationships, then do whatever makes you happy now. If you are thinking about being with Guy #1 in the long-term, though... then DO NOT date Guy #2, even if Guy #1 says it's okay and he'll still love you if you "experiment."

[green_gangsta]

Originally Posted by PSY

You really like both of them, but you can't choose between the two of them... so basically, you don't like either of them enough to commit to a long-term relationship, and that's the problem. I agree with the previous poster: spend some time being "single" so you can re-evaluate your priorities. If you want casual relationships, then do whatever makes you happy now. If you are thinking about being with Guy #1 in the long-term, though... then DO NOT date Guy #2, even if Guy #1 says it's okay and he'll still love you if you "experiment."

I couldn't agree more with this.

[Aletheia*]

I'm going to have to agree with the others. Liking them is one thing, but you're finding it difficult to choose between the two of them. The first poster is right: Option 3 sounds best for you right now. Take some time to be single, discover yourself and what you like. There is no harm in that, and that doesn't mean neither guy will be around when you feel it's right to choose who you want to be with.

[Nicole!]

I agree with option 3. It sounds like you'll have regrets with either guy you chose, and we cannot tell you who to go for anyway. If you like both of them, then there isn't really anything about either that stands out enough for you to want them over any other person. You should not have eyes for anyone else if you actually genuinely like these people. If you got into a relationship with one of them, would you still have feelings for other people, or notice other people in that way? That's something you should ask yourself.