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January 29th 2012, 02:13 AM
I know I post a lot! But I need help again.
So there's this guy, he's been going to my school his whole life, as have I, and he's a senior and I'm a junior. He's really cool, cute, funny, great at sports. But he's sooo out of my league. Everyone says he flirts with me all the time, but I'm not so sure. I think that's just the way he is. But the thing is, he's one of the popular people and I'm really shy and stuff. I also go to a tiny school, so everyone knows everyones business. So if something went wrong it could be bad. I talk to him everyday, he's in one of my classes. But you know.. I'm so shy. I don't know what to do.. and I do want help, it's not just a rant. lol |
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January 29th 2012, 02:51 AM
If friends say he flirts with you a lot, I'd trust their judgment. What are some of the things he says so I can better tell if it's flirting or just him being nice?
You can always hang out with him after school one time to get to know him on a more personal level. It COULD lead to a relationship but if not, it's the start of a new friendship (you can never go wrong there, right?). Ask him to hang out in a group, and go from there.   I may wear the glass slippers; But my hero wears combat boots <3 I love you, Lieutenant HelpLink Mentor 6/13/2011 Pregnancy & Childcare Moderator 11/26/2011 Fashion & Style Moderator 12/28/2011 Social Groups Moderator 12/28/2011 |
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Music is LOVE. <3
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January 29th 2012, 03:59 AM
Thing is, I don't really like most of the group he hangs out with.
But he's always pushing me or pickin on me. Or playing with my hair. :P And one time he stole my iPad and changed the background to "Spencer is my <3" :/ |
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January 29th 2012, 04:50 AM
It sounds like he likes you, but then again, he could just see you as a friend. It could definitely go either way.
However, invite him to hang out with a group of YOUR friends. Not his. That's what I meant when I said "invite him to hang out in a group". In groups, things are likely to not get awkward, as there will be plenty of people around. Inviting him to hang out with a group of his own friends would be silly (  ). So, invite him to hang out with your friends.
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January 29th 2012, 05:28 AM
yes but be careful you dont get used, if the guy really likes you, and you do get with him and nothing happens between you guys for a while and he doesnt push it that means he really does like you
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January 29th 2012, 07:50 AM
Every guy's different, Monster. It's hard to tell what a guy will do if they are, or are not, using someone.
The question I would ask myself, if I were you, Ciara, is: does he do it with anyone else, or just you? If he does it with other people, you can be sure he doesn't solely like you. He might be attracted to you, but that's not 'liking' someone. Be sure about this before making a move like just 'hanging out'. "Today, we will send thirty billion emails; we will send nineteen billion text messages... And we'll still feel alone."
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