Making the first move

[emmaflorence]

So I went on a night out early last week, and I met a really nice guy. We kissed, and swapped numbers, and he texted me the next morning asking if I had gotten home alright. Between last monday and now, there has only been a day where we haven't texted, every other day has been texting all day. It is flirty, and it did get a bit naughty at one stage, but the next day it had gone straight back to being normal conversation. The thing that is annoying me though, is the fact that I have texted him first every single day bar the first time he texted me. What does that mean? Maybe I'm being old fashioned and expecting too much of him, but I reaaaaally like this guy, and it's getting me down that I feel like I have to text him first or we won't speak. What should I do?

[Composure]

The first thing you should do is not read between the lines. There might be things outside of texting that keeps him distracted, or he may not want to text you to wake you up in the morning. There's a multitude of reasons why he might not be texting you first; the important thing is that he texts back.

If you're still really worried, text him and ask him why he doesn't text you first. There's no harm in asking.

[Nicole!]

Since you have always been the first to start the convorsatoin, he may just be expecting it now. Try not texting him, and see if he does. If he doesn't text you after a few days, then he may not be as interested in you as you thought.