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Is There Something Wrong With Me...? - April 17th 2012, 02:08 AM

I basically have a list of girls that I like. There's the top couple who I really like, then another couple who I kinda like and then a handful of girls who I think are pretty or nice, etc. Is there something wrong with liking multiple girls? If its ok then how much is too much? Also is thinking a girl is pretty considered liking?*Please help me me out thanks.
   
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Re: Is There Something Wrong With Me...? - April 17th 2012, 02:18 AM

I have a friend who is like this. Last time I spoke to him, his list was well into the mid-thirties.

Meh, it's all good bro.

It's what I would like to call a "wide target selection"

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Re: Is There Something Wrong With Me...? - April 17th 2012, 06:13 AM

it is not wrong to like more than one girl and no thinking a girl is pretty is not considered liking them its more of an attraction,if you end up dating one of them and still like all of them that is an example of human nature..but it is wrong if you flirt or mess with other girls while your in a relationship..

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Re: Is There Something Wrong With Me...? - April 17th 2012, 04:16 PM

As long as you're single, I think there's nothing wrong with it. You're still young and currently in search for the type of girl that suit you best, so it's normal. But it will get too much if let's say you start stalking those girls and get obsessed with them.
Also, if you're currently in a relationship then this is considered wrong and you need to question your commitment again to the relationship itself.


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Re: Is There Something Wrong With Me...? - April 17th 2012, 05:34 PM

If you're single, you can like as many girls as it pleases you. But I wouldn't consider sexual attraction to have anything to do with liking someone. Like you can think someone is pretty or smart or what ever and possessing traits you like in a girl/guy (depending on your orientation). I think that would be defined more as an "interest" rather than concrete feelings of "if i could I'd date you/be some how involved with you"... But I guess regardless of how you define it, it is VERY possible to have many girls you are interested in, and the only thing that matters is that you narrow it down to just one if you want an actual relationship
   
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