hi guys just wanted a little bit of advice

[Lyss1234]

Okay so i really like this guy, and ive been getting with him for awhile. idk if he knows i like him or what. but were really good friends. like we chill so much and we hookup sometimes and what not. and ive grown so many feelings for him. i dont think he knows. and i think sometimes he flirts back with me like a lot but im not sure how he feels about me. but the problem is my bestfriend who also hangs out with us really likes him... like really loves him. but he dosent like her back. and idk if i should tell him how i feel or what lol it kinda sucks. but any advice on what i should do? lol

and please give me some type of feedback thanks!

[Super1]

I'd speak to your best friend first, so you two can talk it out, tell each other you have feelings for the same guy, leave him out of the picture for a little while. Hopefully through chatting with your bestfriend you can sort it all out...sorry if this didnt really help much

[Flavalicious]

I personally think that you should tell him your feelings first. If he has the same feelings as you and there's the possibility that both of you can be more than just friends, then you tell your best friend about it.

Honestly, I really don't think that you need to have your best friend's permission to confess your feelings to him. Whatever happened between her and this guy should stay in the past unless she's still in love and can't really get over him until this day. Since you mentioned that she loves him but he doesn't like her back, there might be a chance that she's against your intention to confess your feelings to him and who knows what she can do to act against it. So just in case she might do something, if I were you I'll tell him first.

But keep in mind that if she still loves him to this day and later on you really turn out to have a relationship with him, your friendship with her might be at risk. You might want to think about that as well; how you will tell her about this. I hope everything will turn out well with you. Good luck!

[~Wallflower~]

Well, quite frankly you've already hooked up with the guy your friend likes, so no matter how you spin it, whether he knows you like him or not, you are already with him and consequently making him unavailable to her. So if your going to say you're doing something wrong, that ship has sailed.
If you didn't need to ask her permission for that, you don't need to ask permission to tell him you like him. And even if that weren't the case, here is the thing, he doesn't like her like that, so even if she has strong feelings of like for him, it's going to be pretty hard for that to get anywhere being that that's how it is. It would be a different thing if they used to date or something cause she might not be comfortable with thinking about what your doing with someone she used to do stuff with ya know?
I think you should talk to him, if he likes you too, talk about what you should do next. BUT why does your friend need to know before that if he might not even like you too? Cause then you're just going to burst her bubble, and if he doesn't like you and your relationship won't get any further then what ever her reaction will be will have been for nothing. So maybe just let her know after you let him know and ONLY if it goes somewhere. That way you aren't risking a potential blow up over nothing.
Plus, you might want to consider how to approach it carefully if she is the sort of person who tends to overreact and get unrealistically mad over things like that

[Cassie999]

Tell your best friend first you like him and your going to tell him that. Get it off your chest and tell him your feelings towards him. If he feels the same then your best friend got to be happy for you both and if he doesn't then just see him as a good best friend. offer him your heart.