[rac146]

My bf is not my soul means of comfort by any means, and I am not with him just because I need comfort. While I have a past, and I may be "broken" in some definitions, I make it work with my boyfriend (nearly 4 years now) because I love him. There are times where I feel ok and feel good "without" him or anything else, and we celebrate those days together. When I feel down and am struggling, he is there again to help me. And visa versa. There is alot of give and take of comfort in a relationship, and just because one partner may comfort the other more doesn't mean it can't work. as long as its not the only reason you guys are together.