i think that you can help her overcome everything. but i know that you can help her. She's just went through a lot, but i get the feeling that too will pass soon.
I am not that amazing, really.
she's just experiencing a lot of frustrating thoughts due to what happened in her past, and i think that there's a lot of pent-up rage in her.
but i reassure you that you're helping her go in the right direction.