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Name: Elizabeth
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Unhappy Best Friend and Boyfriend problems - May 4th 2016, 09:30 PM

Wellll....

1st I'm going to give you a little back story..
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and I really feel like I love him. In late October, early November, I saw him texting his best friend that he liked on of my friends (we will call her Kelly for the sake of privacy), more than me but he couldn't break up with me because his mom would get mad. I was devastated I had already had self-worth problems and depression and that just set me off. I didn't talk to him after I saw it until her went home, then i texted his best friend is one of my closest friends as well, and asked him why he didn't tell me, I could tell my boyfriend was acting weird because he wouldnt wait for me after school to say good bye, he wouldn't ever text me, and he always just tried to avoid me. I knew something was up.. After about a week of arguing about it, I finally just told him I would forget about it and we decided to move on together and not break up.

Now, My best friend (who we will call Mary for the sake of privacy) spends so much time with my boyfriend, which normally wouldn't bother me until I found out that my boyfriend had a thing for my other friend Kelly. Today we had the day off of school, and my best friend, boyfriend, and I all hung out. Personally i would have rather just hung out alone with my Boyffirned but what ever.. Anyway i spent most of the day 3rd wheeling and my boyfriend knows i am upset but he just got angry with me and was defensive saying that he doesn't like her, I want to believe him, I really do, but the thing is, he has a past for liking my friends and I just don't know how to handle this anymore. I have put so much into our relationship and i don't want to just give up but.. I don't know what to do, please help...