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Re: Best Friend and Boyfriend problems - May 4th 2016, 10:32 PM

Hey,

I'm sorry things aren't working out too well with him right now. I get that you don't want to break it off since you guys have been together for so long, but at this point it seems like it's causing you a lot of stress. If you have to spend your time together worrying about whether or not he likes you and not trusting him, it might be time to rethink your relationship. You should definitely at least have an honest, up-front conversation about his feelings and your feelings to try and clear it up.

I guess my main piece of advice would be to not stay with him just because you feel like you have to since you've been together for so long. I know this would probably be a really hard thing to do, but it's better to break this off now and go on as friends than it is to spend more time stressing about whether he really likes you and being an awkward third wheel in your own friend group.

Hope that helped! My inbox is always open if you need anything or just want to chat

~Estelle



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