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Name: Holly
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Re: I get triggered when guys approach me - April 6th 2017, 04:51 PM

Your feelings are totally valid. None of those things that you experienced with guys were pleasant, but more so when you take into consideration your past. I also know how disturbing it can be when you look younger than you are, and to know that guys may approach you because of that.

It can definitely be hard to know whether you what you feel is reasonable or whether you should give them a chance and be friends. In my experience, a guy who only wants friendship won't talk in a way that suggests sex. I'm sorry to hear about what happened a the community centre and I do think your feelings and your reaction was entirely valid. If you do go back, perhaps try and avoid him, stay in sight of staff or tell the staff about how you feel.

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