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Originally Posted by Celyn

Oh I'm sorry to hear about his friend. It may well be that as the anniversary approaches, your boyfriend may struggle with all sorts of feelings. He might feel angry about the suicide, he may feel guilt, thinking he could've/should've done more. He will be missing his friend too.

It's good to ask him how he feels and if he wants to talk about it. If he wants to talk, then listening and validating his feelings can help. If your boyfriend is up to it, then you might want to think about how you can remember his friend and all the good times they had together.

Losing someone to suicide can be very hard to cope with, and perhaps more so when you struggle with your own mental health. You might want to check out our articles on surviving suicide here: http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f77-d...ide-loved-one/ and here: http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f77-d...ect-survivors/ for ideas on what feelings your boyfriend might experience and what he can try to deal with them.

Remember to take care of yourself too

Thank you so, so much for your reply.
And I guess you’re right. I’m here for him, but I can’t remove the pain.
I’ll take a look at the links.

I’m very good to forget myself in these situations, but I’ll try to take care.

Btw he’s feeling a bit better already.