TeenHelp - View Single Post - Triggering: TW for family diseases: Should I talk to my family about this?

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Hey there, thank you for reaching out. I'm so sorry you found out about your dad's condition this way. It's possible they haven't told you yet because they don't want you worrying. The thought of losing a parent can be scary, as you already said; but you're still really young and I think your parents are wanting you to focus on the things that matter to you now. They probably feel it wouldn't be fair to put the burden on you as you're only sixteen.

However, I would still suggest reaching out to your parents and talking to them about this. Don't make it sound like you're accusing them of hiding this from you. Plus, if the diagnosis is fairly recent, they're probably still processing it; so give them a week or two before you sit down and discuss it with them.

I'm thinking of you and your family.

Feel free to reach out again if needed. Take care.