[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""][FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]You probably won't like this response but the same thing was happening to me when I had my first gf. But for me, and I was wrong to do it, I was gay but didn't want anyone to think it so I got a gf. The only problem was I wasn't sexually attracted to her so when she initiated sex stuff, I couldn't get hard.
So like the other poster said, if he can get hard to masturbate, then it could be lack of actual physical attraction for him.[/size][/color][/font][/size][/color][/font]