Re: Talking about his ex(es) constantly!! -
May 15th 2009, 10:06 AM
Your boyfriend, quite frankly, is a jerk, and if he did that to me, I'd shout my ass off at him. It's not fair, and its really not tactful. Frankly, I'm surprised you managed to keep a cool head.
However, you do need to talk to him about it, or at this stage in the game, since he's not paying attention, give him a bit of his own medicine. Bring up an ex of yours, point out one of his physical 'flaws'. Really, you should treat people the way you wish to be treated, and I doubt very highly he'd like what he's doing to you.
Sorry if I'm sounding cruel, but I just can't stand when guys do things like this.
He obviously isn't listening when you say it bothers you, so you need to try a different action to make him see that what he is doing is horribly wrong.
I hope things look up for you.
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