[losing touch.]

Originally Posted by Josh

Who am I to say? Well, if already you have the viewpoint of not wanting to give birth and choose to abort because you'd rather follow your own future and life, that's a sign of self-serving rather than self-sacrificing. To be a good parent, you need to be self-sacrificing.

I can't force a girl to do anything, nor do I intend to. But, I'll always speak my mind. I won't hold bars and I won't agree to things that I don't agree with.

i don't know if you're using "you" as a general term or directing that towards me, if it's the latter then thats irrelevent because i'm not able to have children. it's all very well you not agreeing with her, but at the end of the day surely you can accept that the decision lies with her, not you. i know that the kid would be half made up of you, but that fact that it's inside her still remains.