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Re: She's Dying... - July 1st 2009, 03:25 PM

That's a really sad story, and it's horrible to know that a family member is dying, it's also a horrible word and makes you feel so down almost instantly, I lost my Grandad last year and I'm still finding it hard.

Like Jes said, spend time her. When the time comes for her to go, she won't be in anymore pain, you won't have to worry that she's ill or getting sicker by the day. Nobody can tell you how to except the fact that she's going to go soon, but don't let it get you down all the time. (It's easier said than done, I should know.)

Be there for your Mum, she'll need you as much as you need her at the moment. Brush the arguments under the carpet for now, they arn't important. What is important is you support your Mum, and yourself. Comfort your Grandma and make sure she knows you care and love her, it's not easy I know, infact it'll be really hard. You'll pull through and you can remember the good times you spent with her, instead of remembering the arguing and bad times.


My thoughts are with you and your family x
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