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Re: Ongoing. - July 16th 2009, 09:54 PM

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...I told her, who I really was. I was someone I wasnt. Mind you this was an online relationship. Long distance. I know, I fucked up, I was stupid.
It was not a mistake to reveal your true nature. If this girl doesn't like being with your true self, it doesn't do you any good to try to be something you are not. I think it was the best thing to see if this girl apprectiates who you really are. It saves a world of disappointment later on.


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I still love her with all my heart.
That's OK but you should move on. If this girl has no interest in you, you can't really get much from her in terms of help, advice, someone to talk to, and the such. Be like a clock that moves forward.


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She says im too young in general to be in a relationship.
I assume that this girl is older than you. Maybe she likes older men. Maybe she doesn't want you to be in a situation where you can blindly be taken advantage of. Both ways, it means she is not interested.


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I want to cut, but I dont have the guts to.
I'm glad you didn't. It's a good thing you can resist the urge. That shows good self-control, something that murderers lack.


I wish you the best of luck. I know you can do it. You even seeked help here and accepted that you had a problem, which is the first step to recovery.