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Re: Um...?? - September 3rd 2009, 05:46 AM

I think there's a couple things that could've caused him to react how he did (or a combination of some):
  • He really didn't believe you'd do that (maybe he thinks you're "too happy" for that or something)
  • He didn't want to believe you would really do that, so he's sort of trying to trick himself by joking about it
  • He felt awkward about the subject and made a joke to try to make it less awkward
  • He doesn't really understand cutting very well, and sort of wanted to get off the subject

IF you feel comfortable with him, both as a boyfriend and a friend, I think it might be a good idea to try to tell him about your cutting. Maybe he could try to help you, plus it could help ease your guilt.

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