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Originally Posted by Music Box
No matter how much I tell myself I don't need it, that I don't want it, I always get this urge that I can't help but to give in to. I never enjoy it for more than the 10-15 "it" lasts and afterward I always feel extremely regretful and disgusted with myself. If anybody has had the same problem and has found a way to help control these urges, please, help me out. :/
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I know exactly what you're talking about. I've been there.
Some think it's okay, others not so much. It can definitely affect relationships. Again, some girls are okay w/it others not. If you're to lazy to watch all 20 mins of those videos, I'll summarize.
Basically, when it comes to addictions, the brain has 2 parts... You have the pre-frontal cortex, in which all your logic and reasoning occurs, as well as the remorse that comes afterwords.
Then there's the limbic system which contains the drive for the addiction. When something triggers you or turns you on, it releases chemicals all throughout the brain, which then "over ride" the part of you that want's to stop.
Hope that helped.
PM me if you need me.
Edit: I just saw QuackerJackWoop's post. Thanks! 