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Originally Posted by DanielR
she basically said that her religion is the big reason why. I couldn't understand this, and our discussion turned into an argument about rights, wrongs, commandments and religion being b.s (I won't go into it).
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ok i can see both sides of the story here and understand where you are both coming from but i think you need to try be a little more ermm how do i put this? open minded? you may not understand why her religion is so important to her but trust me, it is!. everyone has different beliefs and opinions, some things others believe in you maay not. i just think, even though you didn't understand, you could have perhaps respected her belief and have prevented the arguement. sorry i just see A LOT of arguements over religion and blah blah. lol.
so yh, i believe it's a fantastic idea for someone to wait for sex until they are married, if partners can do this then FAIR PLAY! to me, it proves they are strong willed if they can hold off the want of sex. the only problem i have,which sounds a little bit pathetic, is if i waited that long and it wasn't that great of a shag. but, i could get past that. so yh, i think sex before and after marriage is fine. depends on the individuals wants,beliefs etc etc. to be honest, if someone couldn't stand to be in a relationship any longer because there was no sex, i'd be slightly concerned that this was all they focused on and cared about. it's like asking people "could you stay in a relationship if there was no sex for about 5 years?" i could because i love my boyfriend so much.
i'm just very open minded to these sort of things,i think sex before or after marriage is great.aslong as both people are happy and safe then it's cool.
