[Katara]

Denying yourself a basic human impulse because of religion defies logic, how can you decide to devote yourself to a person for the rest of your life, without knowing everything about them, it doesn't make sense. Sex gets built up into some huge big deal by today's society, when in reality its just a physical way of expressing feelings for someone at one end of the spectrum, and a way to force chemical exchanges in the body and facilitate stress relief at the other, and I believe that both options are right, and I have had sex for both reasons. I will never agree with denying myself something just because religion says I should, there's no logic or reasoning there, just blind obedience.

That being said though, I wouldn't think to challenge someone's belief on that front, If the woman that's right for me was to believe this I would respect it, as Voltaire said "I do not agree with anything you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."