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Re: Counselling -
March 8th 2010, 08:25 PM
Never feel guilty for getting help dear. But remember that there's no such thing as magical counseling where things just get better instantaneously... so don't fret if after a few sessions you don't feel as if they've helped. That's perfectly normal <3.
It can certainly be scary, but you seem like you're really ready to get help, which is beautiful, so definitely keep on. As for your parents not knowing, that's often the case when it comes to school counselors; it's okay if you need to speak to someone privately. And if you think that your parents would be opposed to you getting help, then it's both fine and wise not to tell them just yet (or ever, if you choose).
What counts is that this could help, so I'd say go for it <3 You're taking a huge step, so don't hold yourself back <3.
- Nev
if i've ever learned anything, it's to be loved.
funny how accepting and allowing that can be so hard,
when loving someone else can be so easy.
the thing is, we accept exactly what we think we deserve,
no matter what that may be.
so i'm thinking it's time to change our mindsets;
if we haven't yet figured out that we deserve the best,
then it's certainly time.
think about it ;]
<3
love,
Nev
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