[annabanana.]

Hi Jenna,

I'm sorry to hear about your mother and father - i'm sure they do both really care for you, even if they don't show it. You basically said it yourself, they hate the fact you are hurting yourself.

It takes time to quit an addiction as self harm is but it worth it. I believe you are strong enough as you posted - which takes a lot of courage in itself.

I agree with Kat - you should do it for you. But really, anything that motivates you enough is good! It won't be easy, as you have figured out, but it will be well worth it in the end. Have you checked out the Alternatives thread? (click here) Try looking on there until you find something that works for you. If something doesn't work, then try something else and keep on trying.

You need to find a coping mechanism that will give you the same feeling as cutting without causing the scars and hurt. That way, when you feel like you want to cut you can use the other way instead.

For your scars - have you tried using something like Bio-oil? Or even moisturising regularly can help. Keep aiming for the summer, the want to wear short sleeves. You can beat this, I know you can. You are strong enough and I believe in you.

PM me if you need a chat,
Take care.
Anna