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Originally Posted by Brandon

I know that the majority of women masturbate these days because I like to look up random facts It's pretty normal for a woman to masturbate as well as it's normal for a guy to masturbate. So if a woman told me that she masturbates, I'd kind of question her intentions of telling me said information. To me, if a woman told me that she masturbates (whatever started THAT conversation), then she'd basically be indirectly showing me her tits...indirectly inviting me to have sex with her. I don't necessarily consider it a "turn on", but I consider it more of a "come on". Since she's openly admitting that she masturbates, then she's either really weird for telling me (thus freaky in bed...which, in a way, is a turn on), or she likes me sexually (thus potentially freaky in bed). So I guess it's both a "come on" AND a "turn on". To me, you really can't say something like that without a sexual invitation, so if a woman was to tell me information like that and NOT be sexually interested in me, I'd consider the information irrelevant and I'd actually be kind of pissed off. But that's mostly because I've never heard, in real life, a woman saying that she masturbates in casual conversation.

Yeah, this is the only reason I feel weird about letting people know that I personally do it. Like to me it's just normal, and my guy friends talk about masturbation all the time (well..not ALL the time, but it's a fairly accepted topic of conversation among us ) and I would have no problem talking about it except for being scared that guys would think I was trying to be filthy and whoreish and trying to get them into bed. :/