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Name: Nev
Age: 19
Gender: Female
Location: USA

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Join Date: March 7th 2010

Re: Why is this so hard for me? - March 17th 2010, 03:48 AM

I used to, and it was because I was convinced that nobody wanted to talk to me... so I wouldn't say anything to most people unless they said hi first. which was really lame, because what if I had something to say? lol, it's nice to have someone IM you, but that goes both ways.

haha I looked back over this, and that was nott the point, clearly ^^

with people i haven't talked to in a while, i ask questions like what's new, what've you been up to, are you still doing this/that, how's so-and-so, la di da. how's this and that (new school, or new job or new anything), and if the convo gets super slow or traffic-jammy, i say 'well, it was nice talking to you again i thought i'd say hi, we haven't seen each other/chatted in ages. i've gotta go for a bit though, so ttyl' which means the convo is over, unless they want to start it up again... and i don't feel like i have to log off or look rude when i end with that xD


if i've ever learned anything, it's to be loved.
funny how accepting and allowing that can be so hard,
when loving someone else can be so easy.
the thing is, we accept exactly what we think we deserve,
no matter what that may be.
so i'm thinking it's time to change our mindsets;
if we haven't yet figured out that we deserve the best,
then it's certainly time.
think about it ;]
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love,
Nev

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