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Originally Posted by Rhop101
Hello Jake,
I know you've tried being her friend you want to but it's just putting extra stress on you. I don't have anxiety problems, but I did have a similar situation, but the feeling wasn't mutual and I ended up freaking her out and I didn't give her the space she needed, because of this friends situation granted I don't know how she feels in your situation, but you need to try to stop talking or looking at her and try to keep your distance because otherwise you'll keep thinking about her and not give any thought for yourself. You clearly have stated that your anxiety problems and the amount of time together put a strain on you and you know the same thing will happen again if you two get back together. I think you might want to wait to find someone else and let you learn to take better care of your anxiety medication, etc.. before you try to date this girl or anyone.
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I can only think of my ex now. Every other girl I'm just like whatever today even with the curiousity. I'm completely emotionless at this point which is why I have no idea what to do.
I honestly don't feel like dating anyone else because I do believe another shot at the relationship might work once the medication kicks it and calms my thoughts more. If I'm feeling more confident from it and I'm still thinking about my ex, will it hurt to try?
Also, I know keeping my distance from her might be good but we promised to remain friends for now from the beginning of the break up so it might leave er wondering.