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Originally Posted by JakeSim
Thin is I don't feel like letting my ex go because I don't know how another opportunity could go even if I had that feeling. When I see my ex now my heart still beats a little sometimes.
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I think the best thing for you to do right now is to do your best to let her go, give her some distance. Don't move on to anyone else, just work on yourself and keep things open. Maybe in the future things will work with her, maybe they won't. One thing that I think is pretty clear though is that if you keep pushing her as hard as you are, she's going to push back by reflex and not want to be with you, even if maybe that's what she wants. You need to give her some time to think things through and decide what she's doing.
And in the mean time, you need to focus on yourself. Go out, have fun, hang with friends. Do things that make you happy and do your best to get used to being without her. Even if you do end up getting back together, the independence will make your relationship much stronger.