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Re: Should I Tell Her This? - March 19th 2010, 07:13 PM

The Number 42 is right you just need to give each other space and just try to enjoy yourself, I know you don't want to move on, but (I don't know your age) there will be more opportunities in the future especially once you get into college. Your ex won't be the only person you ever meet. It was really hard for me accept, but you really should move on the pressure isn't good for either of you.

I made this mistake, and so now I trying to help you not make the same one I did (It's in my about me if you wanted to look).

Try to hang out with your friends more and do things on your own, It's ok to talk to your ex every once an a while if it comes up, but keep it simple and don't talk about relationships just talk about whatever. It would be best not to though because if you don't talk to her she may realize how she misses and then she may take you back, but she won't miss you if you talk to her a lot. By talking I mean no emails or texts either. If she acts like a jerk because your just trying to help yourself and her then she doesn't deserve you but you need to learn how to deal with these situations so if it happens in the future you'll know what to do/ be more open to opportunities.

You don't have to listen to our advice, but I've been through this sort of on my own and you already have a step up from me in asking for advice and I'm proud of you for that.


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