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Re: Friend of a Friend -
March 19th 2010, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted by AmethystDrew
As much as I know you want to, you can't force her to accept your help. Make sure that she knows that she'll always have a shoulder to cry on, someone to talk to, or whatever she needs in you - and without judgement. And then my advice would be to leave it at that - don't press the topic any further; let her make the next move, but keep in touch with her, make sure she's still doing alright.
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I agree 100% with this, you cant push this situation as it may just tip her over the edge. Let her know that you understand, and are willing to help - and then take a step back and see if she comes to you.
I also like the idea of you maybe finding someway that she could 'help' you - so that way she doesn't feel like the 'silly' person for asking for help.
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