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Originally Posted by Lizzie
Once you are living on your own and are financially, emotionally and physically stable and are in a loving and committed relationship. Because sex is made to create children and that is exactly what it does, even with protection it still can happen. And you have to be prepared to either raise a child, or give it up for adoption. (Depending on where you live, abortion may not be an option, and personally I don’t think it should be an option, but that is another topic.)
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Do you really believe you should not have sex until you are able to take care of a child?
I would say you should not start trying for a baby until you are ready to take care of a child ...
As for having a child:
a) If you use proper contreception, you are probably going to be okay. Condoms split but no doctor I know would recommend condoms as a soul method of contraception. There is emergency contraception avalible for up to 5 days after unprotected sex.
b) Abortion is legal in the countries that most of us are posting from. I would not want a child right now, but do I have sex? Yes. If I got pregnant, I would have an abortion or if I felt unable to, give it up for adoption.
You do not agree with abortion but that shouldn't stop you from seeing that for the vast majority of people it is a very real option. And so most people do not need to be in a place where they can take care of a baby in order to have sex.
If I were to go by your rules, I would not have sex until was 28+
, I don't finish medical school until I am 26, then two years of foundation training.