Guys, Dan, ok--I don't think it's fair to attack the
OP. This is teen
help.
I think that if you're really wanting to have sex with one guy, then it's not going to be healthy for you to be like "I'm with this guy, but I'm wanting to do that guy" because then I think you'll never enjoy being with either guy--and you'll just feel guilty and bad.
I think it makes the most sense to drop your Wisconsin guy, whether you want to tell him about the cheating is up to you, really, because he probably won't find out. I think you might feel like you're coming clean
er if you tell him you've got someone else, but I dunno, it's your call really.
Realistically, you're 17 and you've had a long distance relationship with no physical contact for 5 years. That's pretty impressive, it doesn't happen often for a reason. I think the reason is just that it's too much distance. It's hard to maintain a relationship like that, and if you're already cheating on him, then it's probably not worth it to stay anyway.