[Algernon]

Originally Posted by her_beautiful_mistake

Do you really believe you should not have sex until you are able to take care of a child?

I would say you should not start trying for a baby until you are ready to take care of a child ...

As for having a child:
a) If you use proper contreception, you are probably going to be okay. Condoms split but no doctor I know would recommend condoms as a soul method of contraception. There is emergency contraception avalible for up to 5 days after unprotected sex.
b) Abortion is legal in the countries that most of us are posting from. I would not want a child right now, but do I have sex? Yes. If I got pregnant, I would have an abortion or if I felt unable to, give it up for adoption.

You do not agree with abortion but that shouldn't stop you from seeing that for the vast majority of people it is a very real option. And so most people do not need to be in a place where they can take care of a baby in order to have sex.

If I were to go by your rules, I would not have sex until was 28+ , I don't finish medical school until I am 26, then two years of foundation training.

I fully enforce 110 percent that an individual should be able to take care of a child if they are going to have sex, S*** happens, even if you are careful. And by the way, condoms and Plan B are not completely safe no matter how you twist it.