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Originally Posted by JakeSim
Is it possible I just was not ready for a deep relationship at all and felt overly pressured and committed and seeing as this was my first relationship I jus couldn't handle it? I may have gotten to overwhelmed because of this and panicked. Is it possible?
Is there a way I can tell if it was this or something else?
If I still feel overwhelmed to date at all should I just wait overall before doing anything or is possibly just this girl?
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I think that you sound very confused and overwhelmed and the best thing you could do is to entirely forget about dating for awhile. Have fun being single, it's not a bad thing or a punishment. Especially when you're so confused and overwhelmed by relationships, it can be much more enjoyable to spend time with friends, find new hobbies and just relax without the pressures of a relationship.
And in the future, when you feel more ready, then you can try out a relationship and it will be so much better because you will be ready for it.