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Re: really depressed - March 26th 2010, 10:55 PM

The best support I can think of at this time, for this problem, is to realize that you don't need him to be happy. Sure, he can make you happy, but it certainly isn't the only thing...

His interest in you is gone, and I'm sure he knows you are still interested in him. But the thing is, him breaking up with you isn't about you at all, he is thinking only for himself. The same thing you should be doing as well.

You've gotta move on and focus your interests in other areas now, and stop hoping for him to come back. Because as soon as you do, he won't. Things will play out the way they will, and that is that... nothing more to say than that really.

Take care.

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