[dzzi]

Well I thank you for your concern but I never said I was working out their relationship issues. He and I have our stuff to deal with, he and her have their stuff to deal with. Heck, she and I even have some stuff we need to deal with, but I'm not butting in. And of course she's hurt. So am I. So is he. That's okay. I'd rather work through issues than avoid them. I respect your opinion but I cannot walk away at this point. You can't just walk away from someone you love and who makes you happy, especially if they feel the same way about you. It would leave many things unresolved and a friendship destroyed.

But I do really appreciate the rest of what you said. I'll keep in mind that it's important to not let this hog my attention and that I should live my life. If/when he decides to make changes to be with me, I'll stand by him through a potential divorce and everything, but I 'm gonna try not to dwell on something that may or may not happen months from now. Thanks, and sorry for being so harsh in explaining myself. I'm fairly sensitive when it comes to defending my decisions however rational they are. I guess it's the awkward anxious kid in me haha.