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Hey everyone i thought it over and i just deleted the post, if i did talk to her on private message it could end up getting complicated and she might tell people who we both knew/know and im not ready for that to happen, i told one of my friends what she put ( some one im not out to) and they thought it was a bit of a strange question to ask some one you havent talk to in forever plus

Thanks for the advice guys much appreciated