[rfalangie]

my fellow woman,
it is so difficult being a woman these days. The stress of having perfect hair, teeth, make-up, body, etc. are out of control. it becomes so difficult to just wake up and start your day without thinking about what to wear and what styles make you look fat. Coming from someone who has been through this, it is hard to feel comfortable with yourself. My friend, diet pills never work. Although they seem like an easy route to take, think about the long term. There are no studies to show what these chemicals do to your body years down the road; it is not worth risking your life of obtaining cancer or another disease over a "skinny body." The best anyone can do to help you, is advise. you must take control of your own life and body. Weight-loss is a life achievement. If you make it happen over night, it will come back in one night. The longer and steadier the more healthy you will be. Keep in mind genetics. I am a big boned person by nature and physically can never be as small as the models these days, thanks to my parents. But i can dress to flatter my body; trust me you will be a happier person when you can relax and learn to love every inch of your body and thank the heaven you have it all in one working piece. Enjoy life.