[Cosmo]

Originally Posted by HopelessVictim

Sitting on the shitter-I would like to be nice though. It's just that whenever I go out and make friends they take advantage of the kindness I offer to them.

PSY-I'll try to change my view of how I see the world but it will be difficult being as I've been rude to others for so long. I guess it's some kind of "don't bother me" thing I naturally do, because alot of the time I'm either rude without meaning to be or I'm rude without realizing it until I get a sarcastic remark thrown back me. Most of the time it's a little of both.

What other people said. You have to change your perspective on life. Some people will take advantage of you, but most people won't, and by trusting them not to, you make your life a lot richer.

Also, think before you say something. I know that sounds obvious and sarcastic, but do. Think before you make a little off-hand remark, a joke or a little jokey-jab at someone. Think about whether that person might actually take offense at it, eg. maybe don't make a dead-baby-joke to someone who had an abortion; you know?