[Jaguar]

It's ok to rant. Actually I think you're looking for some understanding and support.

Nobody's perfect, I guess you've heard a thousand times. So I won't discount what you say, but I think your social dissatisfaction has more to do with your self confidence than your looks.

My solution is to get out and meet as many people as possible. The more you meet, the more likely you to find people who will like you. The trick is finding people with similar interests. Try church, volunteer groups, art classes, clubs, political campaigns, anywhere you're likely to find people with similar values. I never had much luck with random chance.