[taylalatbh.]

It was good of you to speak to your mother in the first place, and tell her your safe intentions. But, if I'm honest, I don't really see why you need to tell your mother your sexual business. It's nice to be close but you don't need to share things like that. Especially if you want to do things that she wouldn't approve of.

You've already told her that when you do have sex, you will be safe and protected. And that should be all she needs to know. You shouldn't have to worry about what you do privately with your boyfriend and then having to tell your mother.

But of course, if you do feel like you need to tell her, you could follow the advice above and tell her in a letter.

Take care!