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Re: Hiding it from Mom. - September 2nd 2010, 11:06 AM
Well in my opininon you dont need to tell her anything. Like you've said you've stuck by the rules that you told her you would follow, so you shouldn't have any guilt. And if you did tell her the things you and your boyfriend do, it's likely that she actually would rather not know.

Imagine in 20 years time or however long away it'll be, and your little girl comes up to you and says "Mom, I had oral sex today with my boyfriend." You'd rather not know, right? And by telling your mum what you and him do together, everytime she sees him she'll probably think about it. Which won't be comfortable for either of them.

I think honestly it's best not to say anything.



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