About 3 months ago, I walked into a bank while at the same time this hot guy was walking out with a motorcycle helmet under his arm. I noticed that i did park next to a nice ass motorcycle. Well i walk out from doing business, and theres a guy leaning up on my car on the hood. I thought this was a gift from heaven, i walked up to my car and i saw him closer up, i just knew i wanted to make him mine.
Well he looks up at me when i get closer he says "is this your car?" i smiled said "yes, why?" he had this unsure look on his face.. and slowly said "well.....my bike fell on ur car." i was confussed...and said "how can a bike fall on my car!?" well long story short, it left a dent and scratch on my door instead of swapping insurance numbers... we did phone numbers...that night, i went to his house bc he offered to fix my dent.
He did so, we chilled and watched movies with some drinks. Turns out he is a complete ass, i mean this in a good way. He is a smartass, if i say a smartass comment, i know it's getting thrown back at me 10 times harder. I LOVE THIS!!! this is his best feature besides his looks....a man that can take my humor, and even give it back to me. Constantly made me laugh the whole night, well.. i left and ever since i have been going over everyday or every other day...he cooks me dinner, breakfast in bed, we watch movies, go out on a ride on his bike and of course we got physical....quick. He treats me amazingly, and i get along with him soooo well.
After a month of seeing each other, he gets an acceptance letter to a University, that is amazing. Of course he is gonna take this opportunity, i wouldnt expect him to say no... well he moves 2.5 hrs away from me after 2 months of seeing each other. It's been a month since he's moved there, and he's came home to see me twice already. I already miss him, when i saw him after 2 wks of being away from each other, we couldnt stop kissing, he made me smile ear to ear, i think i almost cried
In the beginning, we agreed to see how we are in 3 months, and decide wether we continue and possible date, what we call a "trial period." If it doesnt work out in the first 3 months...no biggie no harm done. Well, we are coming up on month 3 and i bring up the topic of me being his girlfriend. He always avoids it or brushes it off like im kidding. Or says a comment about the distance...I try to take this as his humor, but its no joke for me. Ive known from day #1 i wanted him.
(note this: we made the "trial period" agreement before the acceptance into college)
Im 21, he's 30. I thought he was a grown man, no games like other guys.
I dont know how to tell him, that ive actually fallen in love with him.
We met so out of the blue, and after almost 2 yrs of being single... ive found someone that i actually want..after hunting and dating so many different guys always comin to a deadend...i actually found him....and have fallen for him harder than my first love of 3 yrs.
How do i talk to him about him becoming my actual BF?
he's gonna live 2.5 hrs away for the next 2 yrs...is it even a good idea?
im down, bc we can commute, but can you give me valid points to throw at him why the distance isnt a big deal?
he's amazing at debates, he's going to college for marketing/business law, so he definately knows how to talk.
