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Re: Beyond boyfriend issues -
September 11th 2010, 08:47 AM
Hey,
I was in your exact position, I was with a guy for a year, and getting through to him that I was not happy was like talking to a brick wall, I just wanted to shake him and yell " HELLO, ARE YOU IN THERE!?" Eventually I stopped talking to him as much, I didnt hang out with him everyday, and I did this until he noticed and asked me about it, then I wrote him a letter, and left him alone with it, so he could not get defensive or shut down and not listen, The letter told him how I felt, what I didnt like about our relationship,and what I am not willing to do anymore.
This worked, we talked and figured it out.
Good Luck, if you need anything, let me know x<3
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