[firecracker]

Hey, just someone else popping in to say that I agree. Talking to him is really the best thing you can do. Be clear and calm and let him know just how you feel. Let him know that you're still coping with past relationships and that you really do care about him.

I also agree that you need to figure out exactly what you're doing to be distant and pulling away, and try to stop. It's not going to be easy, but it will definitely be worth it.