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Re: Online friend with a possible eating disorder - March 25th 2011, 12:53 AM
Michael,

Having a friend with an eating disorder is tough. But ultimately, if she doesn't want the help for this- then don't waste your energy. I think that you should explain to her that you care about her a lot and you are worried about her health right now. Give her examples of what you think is unhealthy. Approach her from a loving place. This is either going to be an eyeopener for her, or it's not going to change anything. Also, the distance is going to make things hard as well. I would say talk to her and be open and honest. Just know that you can't fix and help her unless she wants it too.

I hope that helped!
-Lyndsee