Re: Like a horrible person after we argue. -
May 12th 2011, 01:16 PM
You have to get what your old friends said regardless of whether some of it is true or none of it is true, out of your head. If it is hurting your relationship with your boyfriend you need to get it out of your head. It is okay to work on yourself for the sake of working on yourself, for yourself but for no one else. So if you want go a head and work on yourself if you feel the need to, but only because you want to and not because of what they said. Your boyfriend loves and thinks you are amazing, if he didn't at the end of the day, he wouldn't be saying those things or sticking around with you. So believe him. As far as saying things to your boyfriend that are hurtful, work on that. If you two live together and are fighting just simply leave when the bickering gets to a point of saying these things, if you don't live together and your on the phone or something, just simply say, I don't want to fight. I feel like Im going to say something bad and then hang up.
Always remember to put your happiness first.