Just because there is suffering in the world, doesn't mean that religion, or God, are false, and lies. It just means that there is a reasoning behind the suffering in the world. Sorry about your loss. If you wish, PM
me, and I'll talk to you a bit. I don't really feel like discussing here because it just turns into debate after debate after debate, and it goes no where.
"Daniel broke the kings decree, Peter stepped from the ship to the sea, there was hope for Job like a cut down tree... I hope that there's such hope for me... Blind as I've become, I used to wonder where you were. These days I can't find where You're not. Mine's been a yard carefully surface tended, foxes burrowed underground. Gardening so highly self-recommended, what could I have done but let You down? The sun and the moon, I want to see both worlds as one." -Aaron Weiss, mewithoutYou